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Why Should You Roleplay?

A loving and supportive long-term relationship is something that everyone craves, but it’s easy to fall into a routine and begin to feel bored. That’s where roleplaying can help! Roleplaying adds a sense of adventure and breaks away from your day-to-day routine. By trying different characters and scenarios, you can explore new dynamics and reignite the spark your relationship may lack.

Let’s start with the basics. You and your partner must consent and agree on a night to play. Roleplay requires clear communication about desires, boundaries, and expectations. Agree on a safe word in case things become too uncomfortable and you want to bow out, or if you just need a moment to collect yourself. Next, pick a time and a location. This will help you develop your characters, which is one of the keys to roleplaying. The possibilities are endless, but we’ve compiled a list of some of our favorite roleplay scenarios that make us jump at the opportunity.

Roleplay Scenarios for Beginners:

The key to these scenarios is making it seem real to onlookers, giving the illusion that you and your partner have just met. To keep things convincing, get dressed, leave the house, and arrive at your chosen location separately. Feel free to splurge on a hotel room, pack some of your favorite sex toys or lingerie, and opt for one of you to get ready there! Don’t get too lost in the details though, as part of the excitement is the unknown.

Stranger in a Bar

Arrive separately. Allow one person to settle into the bar, get into character, and order a drink. When you arrive, introduce yourself, look quizzically at the menu, and ask your partner what they’re having. Strangers will really think you two have hit it off when you order another round for you and your new friend. Share a drink and an intimate conversation, and invite them to go home with you to really seal the deal.

Naughty Neighbors

It’s time to become the hot neighbors everyone in the neighborhood gossips about. You and your partner are neighbors who have secretly had the hots for each other. The air seems to sizzle when you two lock eyes. There’s a knock on your door and who is it but your neighbor asking to borrow a cup of sugar. Of course, you’ll oblige their request in exchange for a sweet treat. You touch hands while you’re giving them some sugar and sparks fly. Is this an opportunity to take this connection beyond your shared walls?

Forced Proximity

Forced proximity is a classic romance trope that gets everyone going because it forces characters to face their attraction head-on. You and your partner are colleagues who have been assigned project partners, and you’re not so thrilled to be working with one another. Keep this interaction very tongue-in-cheek. Learn to work together and maybe you’ll uncover a spark you never knew was there! Meet at a library or rent out a collaborative space for the day.

Masquerade Ball

With shows like Bridgerton being all the rage, a Queen’s ball is easy to find! Embrace your inner debutante and get ready to fill your dance card and gather bids. The anonymity of masks lets you and your partner feel like you can adopt a different persona (Plus, who doesn’t love a good mystery?). Enjoy the enchanting atmosphere and commit to the dress code as you immerse yourself in this roleplay setting. Who knows, you may even kiss a prince!

How to Write Your Own Roleplay Scenario

If none of these suggested prompts feel like the right fit for you and your boo, that’s ok! Here are some tips on how to write your own steamy scenarios.

Set the Scene

Like we said before, agree on a time and a place. Whether it’s a moonlit forest glade or a bustling bar that you frequent, painting a detailed picture that immerses both you and your partner in the world you’re about to inhabit together is the overall goal.

Introduce Your Characters

Dive into the intricacies of your character’s backstory, personality, and motivations. This not only makes the roleplaying experience more authentic, but this helps you understand your roles and how your characters might respond to the unfolding narrative.

Leave Room for Conversation

Craft your starter with an open-ended approach, inviting your partner to actively engage with the storyline. Leave room for improvisation and collaboration, similar to the rules of improv! Doing this invites creativity and spontaneity, leading to richer and more immersive roleplaying experiences.

If you’re looking for more ways to spice up your sex life check out The Inspo Spot for sex & wellness tips. Roleplay might feel intimidating, but remember all you need is a safe space and a safe word.