If you’ve heard of ball gags and want to learn more about them, you’ve come to the right place! Keep reading to learn everything you need to know about using ball gag as part of bondage and BDSM play.
What is a ball gag?
A ball gag is a bondage sex toy that is placed around the wearer’s head, with the ball part of the gag fitting between their lips. Some people may refer to a ball gag as a gag ball. The gag muffles any sound the wearer makes. Ball gags can be breathable, meaning the wearer can breathe through the gag, or non-breathable, meaning the wearer would have to breathe through their nose. Ball gags generally have stretchy or adjustable straps to fit different size wearers, and the balls may come in different sizes to cater to different-sized mouths.
Why do people like ball gags?
There are several reasons people into bondage and BDSM enjoy ball gags. For the wearer, simply putting it on can help them get into subspace (that state of existence where they are focused on their submission). Similar to the way putting on a blindfold takes away one of your senses, putting on a ball gag eliminates the ability to make your voice heard. The physical act of placing the ball in your mouth and having it restrain you can be arousing to some people. It can help remind them that they are submitting in a powerful, visceral way. Because wearing a ball gag forces the mouth open, the wearer may drool, further reinforcing their position as a submissive who is willingly giving up this aspect of control over their body during a BDSM scene.
Additionally, ball gags create a powerful visual effect that many people find sexy. If you’re engaging in bondage and don’t want to be overheard, a ball gag can be an effective way of maintaining silence or quiet.
For submissives, wearing a ball gag allows them to yell, scream, or make noises, knowing that they will be muffled. Just as tugging against handcuffs while restrained can amplify the effect for the wearer, so can making noise while a ball gag is in place. Additionally, the physical sensation of having the gag around the wearer’s head and being able to taste the ball in your mouth can reinforce the wearer’s sense of submission.
A ball gag may also be a fetish for some wearers, who may be aroused by the taste and/or smell of the gag.
How do I use a ball gag?
Ball gags are easy to use; simply place the gag around the wearer’s head and fit the ball in the wearer’s mouth. Make sure their jaw isn’t stretched too much and that they feel comfortable wearing it. To start out, don’t wear the gag for more than 15 minutes. You can increase that time gradually if the wearer feels comfortable doing so, but ball gags shouldn’t be worn for a prolonged period of time because they do stretch the jaw.
What safety practices should I follow with a ball gag?
Since the wearer can’t use a safeword while they’re wearing a ball gag, it’s crucial to have a safe signal they can use to indicate stopping or taking a break. This can be something like snapping their fingers, or they can ring a bell they’re holding. It’s important to agree on this signal ahead of time so all parties feel comfortable, and it helps ensure a safe BDSM session. Additionally, if the potential wearer has a cold or stuffy nose, they should wait to wear a ball gag until they can properly breathe without using their mouth.
What are the best ball gags?
The best ball gag for you will depend on the size of your mouth and face, as well as your preference when it comes to gags. If you’re new to wearing a ball gag, you likely want to start with a smaller ball size and work your way up to a bigger gag. Click down below to view some of our most popular ball gags!
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