Sex Restraints & Handcuffs

What Are Sex Handcuffs and Handcuff Sex?

Sex handcuffs and restraints are used in the bedroom to cuff or tie down a lover. Handcuffs are often used in bondage play or BDSM, as bondage restraints bring pleasure during foreplay and sex. Handcuffs are often made of metal, and cuffs and other restraints are usually leather, but other materials and bondage restraints are also common.

What Restraints Can I Use Besides Handcuffs During Sex?

There are dozens of BDSM sex toys in our naughty selection you can use to tie up your partner, like bondage tape, sex restraints for wrists and ankles and everything else to get your kink on! There’s more to sex handcuffs than metal, depending on the type of bondage exploration you’re doing. So if you don't want to try metal handcuffs, there's everything from black or red furry handcuffs to leather handcuffs, bondage rope in a variety of colors and so much more.

Silky slash restraints can be used to restrain someone’s ankles or wrists so they can enjoy the thrill of being tied down. Whatever type of naughty handcuffs or other bondage straps you select, you can savor knowing that you are handing yourself over to your partner to enjoy your body while you are shackled. Part of the joy of bondage is that act of surrendering yourself, and trusting that your partner will make you feel as sexy as possible.

How Can I Start Using Sex Restraints?

If you and your partner are just testing the waters, then start off slow to make sure the both of you are comfortable. Communication is key, so make sure that you each share your respective fantasy and how you picture it happening. Wrist restraints are often a good first step for beginners, because it's a common fantasy and it's easy to find sexual pleasure in handcuffs or other types of restraints. If the two of you enjoy it, then begin incorporating more bondage toys, like a blindfold, ball gag, and ankle restraints. You can also incorporate other sex toys like vibrators along with your bondage restraints for even more erotic pleasure.

And remember: Regardless of how you and your lover play, it's always important to have a safe word during this kind of sexual activity. Your partner's pleasure is just as important as yours, so if something were to go wrong, then you both will know what to say to stop immediately. For a deeper break down of getting started with bondage check out our bondage beginner's guide!

Using Handcuff Restraints for BDSM

If you’re the one who’s in charge of using handcuffs for sex, then there are many ways you can experiment with BDSM in the bedroom.

For those who like role-playing or simply adding to your dominant/submissive roles, consider a bondage collar and leash, so you know who’s truly in charge. More advanced kink lovers may be interested in a hogtie kit, web restraint system or a bondage bar to lock their partner’s legs or arms in exactly the right place for maximum enjoyment. Maybe you’ll tie your submissive lover's hands behind their back and have them perform oral sex on you. They won’t be able to use their hands because they’ll be locked in place. It’s up to you whether you want to be lenient and let them out for a few moments or see how creative they can get while they’re bound. They’ll face a delicious dilemma that will likely make them incredibly aroused as they discover the excitement of having their movements restricted. Our selection is full of kinky cuffs that help you take control of your lover the way they crave.

Or perhaps you're a loud screamer? Then try having your lover use bondage tape across your mouth, so you can only make muffled moans. As you're silenced, they could apply nipple clamps, spank you with a paddle or perhaps run a vibrator or massager along your most sensitive body parts. Bondage is a give and take, where the bottom offers themselves up to the top, surrendering their movement for the sake of the bliss of getting off on kinky sex. These handcuffs and restraints pair perfectly with other types of sex toys to up the ante and reinforce the sensation of being tied up, or can be used on their own.

Where Can I Buy Leather Handcuffs and Restraints?

At Spencer’s, we have everything you need to fully delight in all that bondage has to offer. An under the bed restraint kit can be tucked away from prying eyes (or is portable for your next naughty vacation), but can come out at night when its four cuffs and restraint straps can be used to turn your bedroom into a bondage playground. With everything from furry handcuffs to bondage kits, there truly is something for everyone. So whether you’re a bondage newbie or longtime devotee, we’ve got the perfect kinky cuffs for you. And don't worry; our discreet shipping makes shopping online a breeze.