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If you’ve ever done Kegel exercises, where you squeeze your PC muscles as if you are trying to stop yourself from peeing, the idea is the same: you insert the balls, which come either as two individual spheres or attached together on an insertable string. You can use lube to help you guide them inside, then either have sex or simply wear them for a given amount of time, tightening and releasing or just allowing the balls to get you working those muscles.
One great aspect of benwa balls is that they can be a solo activity that’s totally discreet so nobody has to know that while you’re sitting at your desk, you’re also letting those balls do their thing, or they can be part of your sex life with your partner, who can either help you insert them, watch you do so, or be the lucky recipient of your newly fit vaginal canal.
They can also easily be paired with any other erotic activity, from spanking to oral sex, and you can use sex toys like an external vibrator, nipple clamps or bondage implements as you normally would while the benwa balls are inside you for maximum effect. For those like E.L. James’ famous couple who are also into dominance and submission, “ordering” someone to wear them can be a way to take your relationship to the next level.
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