When you’re exploring anal sex, anal plugs, also called butt plugs, are a perfect way to introduce this type of erotic activity into your sex life. These sex toys are designed specifically for your anus to maximize pleasure, and all have a flared base so it stays snugly in place. Spencer’s offers a wide range of anal plugs for men and women in assorted colors, sizes and shapes so you can customize your sexual pleasure. Some are decorative, letting you be an exhibitionist as you shake your bottom to show off a purple bunny butt plug, which may lead to some sexy roleplaying. Some even glow in the dark so once you’ve got it securely in place, dim the lights and let your lusty side take over.
How can you tell what size anal plug to use? Well, everyone is different, so the answer will depend on your anal sex experience level, mood and body. It’s always a good idea to start small with a beginner butt plug so you can get used to what it feels like. Our butt plugs range from three inches to seven and a half; we even have anal training kits so your body can adjust to taking larger and larger sizes, which can be the perfect preparation for anal sex with your partner. Even a three or four inch plug can provide a huge amount of sensation when inserted into the anus, which is rich with nerve endings. For men, anal play can activate an area called the prostate (or P spot) and heighten their orgasms. Depending on the material used to make the anal toy, such as glass or silicone, you may experience different sensations. What plug to use also varied based on how long you plan to wear it; if you are keeping it strictly to the bedroom, go for any length; if you’ll be wearing it while out and about, you may want to opt for a smaller size so your body can get used to the sensation.
You should pair your anal toys with anal lube, since the anus doesn’t self-lubricate, you’ll be assured that the insertion process goes smoothly, though you still want to go slowly. Anal pleasure is all about the journey, not the destination. Anal plugs can be used on their own or combined with intercourse or kinky sex acts like spanking. It all depends on what type of intimacy you want most.
There’s more to these anal sex toys than just size, however. Butt plugs deliver all sorts of different erotic sensations that can improve your sex life and show you new ways of getting off. Using a vibrating butt plug during intercourse or other erotic stimulation can lead to an explosive orgasm as your different erogenous zones work together. Plugs that don’t vibrate can be played with by you or your partner, whether they twist it around or guide it in and out.