A ballgag is a wonderful way to show how committed you are to submitting to your dominant and truly surrendering. What is a ball gag? It’s a rounded ball that goes in a person’s mouth as part of bondage or BDSM play to restrict their ability to talk. As part of a bondage or BDSM session, gag balls can signify a new level of submission since the person wearing it allows themselves to give up their ability to talk, thus relying on other forms of communication. Putting one on—or, more likely, having one put on you by your top—is a sign that you trust the person you’re obeying and are ready to get intense with them.
For some people, simply the act of having a bondage gag placed in their mouth can take on significance in terms of their power dynamic. For others, it can allow them to make noise and have it be muffled against the fabric of the gag, which is perfect if you have roommates or others who you don’t want to hear just how naughty you are. There’s also a sexy visual component to ball gag bondage: A dominant may enjoy seeing their submissive wearing a gag as a symbol of their devotion. Knowing their mouth is occupied until the moment they choose to take it off can have a heady effect on both partners. When you wear a ball gag, you are utterly at the mercy of your partner every time your tongue brushes against the fabric. Maybe they’ll blindfold you at the same time, limiting your senses even further, or handcuff your wrists behind your back. Whatever kind of kink you enjoy, wearing a bondage ball will amplify the sensations even more.
Spencer’s offers you variety, as it does with all our sex toys and bondage gear, from beginner ball gags to the more advanced variety. One of our most popular options is a breathable ball gag with a non-toxic rubber ball and adjustable strap.
We also have bit gags for role-playing or simply another type of oral restraint. You can get truly into a bondage scene with a combined gag and wrist restraint, which will leave its wearer’s body waiting for the touch of a dom or domme to kiss, tickle, tease, pinch, bite, slap or otherwise play with.
If you’re looking for a gag as part of your initial foray into kinky sex play, our first time bondage kit has one along with a rope whip, feather tickler, love mask and sex dice to give you plenty of naughty ideas. Or if you're a ball gag virgin, before donning one, be sure to set up a non-verbal version of a safeword such as making noise with your hands or holding an object that can be dropped if needed so that the person wearing it has a way to stop the action if it gets too intense for them since they won’t be able to talk.