A ball gag manages to say so much while its wearer can’t speak a word! As part of a bondage or BDSM session, a ball gag can signify a new level of submission since the person wearing it allows themselves to give up their ability to talk, thus relying on other forms of communication. Putting one on—or, more likely, having one put on you by a dominant partner—is a sign that you trust the person you’re obeying and are ready to get intense with them.
For some people, simply the act of having a bondage gag placed around their mouth can take on significance in terms of their power dynamic. For others, it can allow them to make noise and have it be muffled against the fabric of the gag. A dominant may enjoy seeing their submissive wearing a gag as a symbol of their devotion.
Spencer’s offers you variety, as it does with all our sex toys and bondage gear, from beginner ball gags to the more advanced variety. One of our most popular is a breathable ball gag with a non-toxic rubber ball and adjustable strap.
We also have bit gags for role-playing or simply another type of oral restraint. You can get truly into a bondage scene with a combined gag and wrist restraint, which will leave its wearer’s body waiting for the touch of a dom or domme to kiss, tickle, tease, pinch, bite, slap or otherwise play with.
If you’re looking for a gag as part of your initial foray into kinky sex play, our first time bondage kit has one along with a rope whip, feather tickler, love mask and sex dice to give you plenty of naughty ideas.
If you are a ball gag virgin, before donning one, be sure to set up a non-verbal version of a safeword so that the person wearing it has a way to stop the action if it gets too intense for them since they won’t be able to talk.