Sometimes you’re curious about a sexual practice like g spot orgasms, nipple play, bondage, or BDSM, but aren’t quite sure where to start. It can be overwhelming to face a seemingly endless array of options when you are just starting out on your sexual journey. Maybe you saw Fifty Shades of Grey, or a lover suggested something they want to try. You have a feeling you’ll be into it, but want to dip your feet (and other body parts) in before investing a lot on toys you might never use again. At Spencer’s, we want to help you have the best sex of your life, so that’s what we have a range of affordable sex kits to help get you started on your next erotic exploration.
Our adult toy kits allow you to safely and easily take your sexuality in a new direction, whether alone or with a partner, to figure out what really floats your boat. We have beginners bondage sex kits, nipple play kits and much more. Most come with several items you can use individually or in conjunction with one another as you playfully venture into new territory in the bedroom. After all, how will you know what turns you on until you’ve tried it for yourself, especially when it comes to something as specific as hot wax or cock rings? No matter how many people explain what it feels like or how many videos you watch of people doing it, that won’t tell you what those drops of wax will feel like on your nipple, or how hard you’ll get with that special penis enhancer wrapped around you.
You can act out your sexual fantasies by shopping together with your partner and selecting a couples sex kit that has items you both want to try. You want to communicate clearly with your partner about what you’re curious about, what you definitely want to test out and what’s on your “not for me” lists so that nobody is faced with a huge shock (in other words, don’t simply bust out a pair of handcuffs and bondage tape on an unsuspecting partner, but ease into your kinky explorations so you’re both comfortable).
Maybe you want to have a little bondage fun, but aren’t sure who should be the one getting tied up and blindfolded? You can take turns, talking and experimenting together. Or you’ve heard all about the wonders of the g spot, maybe from a friend who discovered she could squirt, but you have no idea how to even find yours. You’ll want a vibrator curved in just the right way to hit that area, as well as the time to relax and figure out what areas of your unique body are most sensitive. Remember, sexual pleasure and climax are not a race to the finish line, but a process you can enjoy every step of the way.
Despite what you may have heard, there’s no single, surefire route to the perfect orgasm every time. Why? Because we’re all different, and what turns you on may leave someone else cold. That’s why it’s good to get out of a rut and simply have fun as you figure out what you want to try next, whether that’s based on something you’ve seen or heard about, the suggestion of a partner or a pleasure aid that makes you want to run it along your body. Spencers offers a variety of toys paired together to maximize your enjoyment, whether you want to make oral sex even juicier, delve into a fetish or look into bondage.