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If you’re ready to try using a strap on, Spencer’s has all the equipment you need to make this popular sexual fantasy a reality. Strap-on sex usually involves one person wearing a harness and dildo and using it on the other person, though there are also strapless models that don’t require a harness.

Why do people like using strap on sex toys? It gives the wearer the chance to be in charge, have their own cock for the evening thanks to the dildo and be the giver rather than the receiver. The other partner gets to feel what it’s like to be penetrated, either anally or vaginally. It’s the perfect way for couples to mix things up in the bedroom and the best part is, you can customize your new sexy adventure to your specifications. Often just the sight of your lover wearing the strap on is enough to turn many people on, because it’s a whole new visual to arouse their mind and unleash lots of erotic possibilities.

Our harnesses come in an array of styles and materials and are designed to easily fit around your hips. If a woman’s wearing it, the placement of the dildo means it presses against her clitoris for a very pleasurable sensation as she’s thrusting. What makes them different from simply holding a dildo is that your hands are free for other activities (and won’t get tired), it can feel exciting to wear and show off your new “member” and it can add a sizzling new element to your bedroom rendezvous.

Who uses strap on dildos? Lots of people! Lesbian couples often use strap-ons when they want to enjoy the feeling of penetration and closeness to their partner. For male/female couples who want to explore pegging (also known as “bend over boyfriend”), where the woman penetrates the male anally, strapon sex toys are the perfect way to explore.

You can take your pick of colors such as red, blue, purple, black and even glow-in-the-dark to sizes and styles, choosing among realistic looking dildos that resemble penises or playful, colorful ones that are eye-catching and arousing. One of our most popular options is the Menage a Trois Strap On Dildo Set, which features a six inch red dong that’s perfect for beginners. If you’re using a strap-on for anal play, make sure you’ve got some water-based lube nearby too.

One of the most important things to remember about strap on sex is that both partners should be totally comfortable. You want an adjustable harness so that you can get the perfect fit, which will enable you to keep going longer when it’s time to put the strap-on dildo into play. We sell complete dildo and harness sets that have everything you need or separate harnesses that allow you to insert your favorite dildo.

Using a strap-on is a great way to explore not just anal sex, but erotic power dynamics. If you’ve always dreamt of your lover having a penis for you to worship, play with and feel up close and personally, now you can!

Don’t want to bother with straps? Consider the popular 9 inch Vibrating Strapless Strap On, which stays in place via the wearer’s G-spot, so she gets this special inside area aroused while she’s making her partner feel incredible! We consider that the best of both worlds. They're also useful for men who have erectile dysfunction issues or who ejaculate earlier than they’d like; when that happens, they can put on men’s strap on and go for as long as their partner wants! If this is your situation, look for a hollow strap-on, since it can fit an erect or non-erect penis, allowing you to fulfill their intimate desires at any time.

Spencer’s has plenty of strap on sex options so you can find the perfect style, fit and size you desire, and if you have questions, our customer representatives are here to help you get just the right tools for the job!