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If you're ready to try using a strap on, Spencer's has everything you need to make this popular sexual fantasy a reality. Women, you can have a cock of your very own! But first let's answer the question that's probably on your mind: What is a strap-on? "Strap-on" refers to a type of dildo fitted into a harness, usually worn by women, that's used to penetrate another person sexually. Most dildos can be uses in harnesses, as long as they fit properly in the O-ring, which holds it in place. There are also strapless models that don't require a harness. Keep reading to learn more about the different varieties.

The word strap refers to the harness, which is worn by the dildo wielder. Most harnesses have straps that the wearer wraps around their hips. Other options are thigh harnesses and panty harnesses. What's the difference? A thigh harness is worn on the leg and straps around the thigh. A panty harness has a hole in front for the dildo to fit into.

Why Strapons Are Popular

Why do people like using strap on toys? There are several reasons: They give the wearer the chance to be in charge. They get to have their own cock for the evening thanks to the dildo. This is a heady and powerful experience even before you use it on someone else. The wearer can be the giver rather than the receiver. Their partner gets to feel what it's like to be penetrated, either anally or vaginally.

This may be something new for a couple, allowing them to open their sexual horizons. It's the perfect way for couples to mix things up in the bedroom. The best part is, you can customize your new sexy adventure to your specifications. Often just the sight of your lover wearing the strap-on is enough to turn many people on. These toys offer a whole new visual to arouse their mind and unleash lots of erotic possibilities.

Our harnesses and dildos come in an array of styles and materials, including silicone. They are designed to easily fit around your hips. If a woman's wearing it, she can easily get aroused. The dildo will press against her for clitoral stimulation. This provides a very pleasurable sensation as she's thrusting.

What makes using a strap on different from holding a dildo? Your hands are free for other activities! Plus you won't get tired out. Plus it feels exciting to wear one. If you don't have a penis, you get to show off your new "member."

Who Likes Strapon Dildos?

People of all sexual orientations enjoy strap on play. Lesbians often use strap-ons for penetration. They can take turns wearing them and being the giver or receiver. This does not mean that they secretly want to be men. It simply means they want to enjoy certain sexual positions that are aided by a strap-on. Two women may also use a double dildo so they can both be penetrated simultaneously.

For male/female couples, it lets them explore pegging, also known as "bend over boyfriend." The woman wears the harness and dildo and penetrates the man anally. Strapon sex toys are the perfect way to live out this popular sexual fantasy. As an exciting bonus, this action can also stimulate the P-spot (prostate). This erogenous zone can produce major pleasure for men and may create stronger orgasms.

But men aren't the only ones who benefit from pegging. Women get to feel the base of the dildo pressing against their clitoris. If they use a vibrating dildo, the sensation is even stronger. With each thrust of her hips, she both delivers and receives pleasure. Talk about a win/win!

Sometimes, a man will wear a hollow strap-on to help him with erectile dysfunction issues. Instead of a regular solid dildo, there's a hollow opening he can put his flaccid penis inside. Whether he's hard, half hard or not hard yet, he'll be ready for sexual action immediately. Hollow strap-ons are also useful for men who ejaculate too early for the same reason. Using this kind of toy gives you time to fulfill your intimate desires. Both partners will be satisfied and can enjoy sex at their own pace.

A hollow strap-on can greatly improve your sex life. How? Because it takes the pressure off. A man doesn't have to worry about controlling his hardness. He can relax and be in the moment. He knows that he can always add a strap-on when he's flaccid or erect. This way everyone gets what they want! Penetration is always a possibility. His cock doesn't have to do all the work.

In other words, strap-ons are unisex sex toys that everyone can enjoy.

Types of Strap-Ons

Strap-ons dildos come in many variations. You can take your pick of bold dong colors such as red, blue, purple, black and even glow-in-the-dark. These are eye-catching and exciting. You can also select a realistic looking one that resembles a penis. One of our most popular options is the Menage a Trois Strap On Dildo Set. This six inch red sex toy is perfect for beginners. Hint: Make sure you have water-based lube nearby!

Spencer's has plenty of strap on sex options designed with our adventurous customers in mind. You can find the right style, size and type for you. Things to consider: Dildo color and size, hollow or not, type of harness. What kind of experience are you looking for? You can enjoy double penetration, anal play or vaginal intercourse. Get ready to strap it on and bring your sexual fantasies into the bedroom!

Spencer's carries many different types of strap-on harnesses because we want you to have the best sex possible. Your options range from ones designed for pegging to the fashionable purple Dillio Strap-On Suspender Harness or even a lace harness. The Vac-U-Lock Ultra Harness with Plug even has a crotchless design for a different feel. Whether you want a straightforward harness or a more adorned design is up to you.

You also want to make sure you get the perfect fit so you're completely comfortable. Look for an adjustable harness. One popular option is the Dillio Perfect Fit Harness, which fits waists of up to 68 inches. Several of our harnesses are designed for beginners. These will help you get used to wearing one.

When selecting a strap-on, think about what kinds of sensations you prefer. You can get a vibrating dildo or one that doesn't vibrate. Our dongs come in a variety of flesh colors as well as options such as red or pink. Think about which you prefer, since these toys become an extension of you in the heat of the moment. They are special and intimate since you're wearing them and mimicking having a real cock. Keep that in mind.

Trust us: Choosing your own strap-on is very personal. While you may own several vibrators, you may only own one strap-on. It depends on your preference and how often you use it. What's great about them is you can change the dildo depending on your mood. You may want one for anal penetration and one for vaginal. The options are endless!

Before you get started, you may want to spend a little alone time with your new toy. Look at yourself in the mirror. Touch your new appendage. Stroke the straps. Get to know them. Hump the air. Imagine what it will feel like to thrust your hips as your partner writhes. It's okay if it feels a little strange at first. You'll get used to it!

Another thing to keep in mind is to make sure the harness is adjustable. If you're using a silicone toy, make sure you only use water-based lubricant with it.

How to Use Your Strap-On for Pegging

  •     Find a dildo and harness that fit
  •     Make sure you like how you look wearing it
  •     Get used to how wearing it feels
  •     Show off your strap-on to your partner
  •     Have them touch your new cock
  •     Get into position with the woman standing or kneeling behind the man
  •     Add lube to the dildo and his anus
  •     Gradually guide your strap-on inside
  •     Move slowly and check in with your partner
  •     Once you're in a good position, thrust away

Strap-On Sex Tips

You might hear "strap-on sex" and think it only means one thing, but that's not true! There are many ways to enjoy these popular adult items. Simply putting one on can change the whole bedroom mood. A woman who's used to taking orders may discover she loves being in charge. She may develop and fondness for dirty talk or dominating her partner. Or she might simply enjoy watching him bend over and take what she has to give.

Using a strap-on is a great way to explore erotic power dynamics. Have you dreamed of having your lover worship your penis? Now they can! When you wear a dildo, it's so much more than a sex toy. Sticking out between your legs, it's like a new body part. You won't know until you try it how good it can feel or what emotions it will bring up.

One of the most important things to remember about using a strap-on harness is that both partners should be completely comfortable. That's why an adjustable harness is vital so you can get the perfect fit. This will let you keep going longer. The good news is that we sell complete dildo and harness sets. You can also shop for a separate harness and insert your favorite dildo. It will fit into the O-ring of the harness. It should be snug so you can control it.

This advice applies to most sex acts: Take your time. Before you go all the way with pegging, consider using other anal toys first. You can train your body to take larger objects. Start with a butt plug of three or four inches. Then you can work your way up to larger dildos once you're comfortable with the plugs.

Not to brag, but here at Spencer's, we're sex experts. We've selected the best strap-ons to help you have the hottest sex of your life. All of our products in this category have been selected with your pleasure in mind. Talk with your partner and select the one that turns you on the most. If you have any questions about using your strap-on, our customer service representatives are always available to assist you. You can also click "Ask Jackie" below for help making your purchase.